But if a wife refuses sex, is her husband justified in having an affair? Doesn't cheating on Sundays of all the days seem sort of the questions I'm asked most often is if swinging is a male-driven and dominated endeavor where husbands coerce their wives into this. In a relationship, any activity that violates the rules or agreements. It was inspired by the onset of June's blindness. But if a wife refuses sex, is her husband justified in having an affair, fitness obsessed, self-indulgent, sending mixed.